Well kind of failed at this already. W was upset about something my daughter said which was in connection to one of her recent decisions and I tried to make her feel better. It was part validation and part saying how I saw it / thought about it. I should have just stopped at the validation. Although, maybe I need to be there for her to support her. I always used to be good at making her feel better, but I get the feeling my W feels I have been not recognising her problems over the past few years.


Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.