Hi T100, that was pretty poetic: "if the score was 1-1". Touche.

Here's another issue I wanted to bring up and get some advice on: my W is quite a yeller. Whenever we have a discussion about a seemingly innocuous topic, her voice inevitably starts to rise as she gets worked up about a topic. I have always had a real problem with that, especially when she *screams* at the kids, let alone at me. I can't imagine what the neighbors must have thought at times.

So today she called for some help with a user name/password, and she just starts shouting and, while I am detaching, I really don't need to be yelled at, particularly when I'm trying to work.

Does anybody else have an anger-management candidate for a S? How do you deal with it?


M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13