How fun! I love this idea! This is like a huge validation for her -- acknowledging the need she has and following up on it.

I know when my H finally signed his lease on his year long apartment after four months in a corporate apartment I was so upset. But the day I decided to help him by looking for extra things we had here at home to furnish it (towels, sheets, dishes, etc.) was a huge relief that I had let it go!

Here, with you, FY, and this car, you have the opportunity to support her without her moving out.

I can't wait to hear what her reaction is! It would be nice if she responds in a physical way! wink


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway