I like that you continue the solid GAL activities, which include the boys. I also like that even though W is expressing more interest in you, and also has some "we" mindset, that you recognize the need to continue as you have been and with no expectations.
It sounds like you've done a great job of keeping the pressure off and she is starting to feel more relaxed around you (and your brother).
Keep up the good work!
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway