I do get what you're saying BH ... I wish I can see what you see, hence my going into counseling. I do think that you can be objective, so probably see more than I do. I am getting "it" slowly but surely. You're right in my so-called H being controlling, but he doesn't come across as being so.
Thanks for your continued interest. I do really appreciate it, and those others who still comment. I need those 2x4's, and reality checks.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim