I agree with Kaffe. If he keeps pounding on the same topic, just repeat what told him before, like a broken record. My first XH was this way, he kept talking about the same thing again and again and didn’t listen to what I was saying. It drove me nuts. All I could do is to repeat the same answer to him over and over again. I just kind followed his own path.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state