Is there a difference though between losing interest in sex and losing interest in sex with your spouse? Or can they be one in the same due to hormone changes and/or depression?
I'm no expert but I'd say the difference is if they are doing someone else.
In a MLC situation the depression has them searching desperately for happiness/meaning. The fear that time is running out throws them into overdrive to find answers. Of course sane people know flings aren't the answer.
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Oh, and hi FY! Still keeping up on your sitch
Thanks TVS. With all you're dealing with that means a lot to me.
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W's car is overdue for replacement... I'm tired of working on it and putting $$$ into it. She wants a convertible or other sporty car!
So I've been looking and offering solutions for months now but W keeps dragging her feet and won't commit.
I talked with a salesman yesterday and it looks like I'll likely have a sporty VW Beetle on test loan sitting in the driveway when she returns from her trip away with GF late this afternoon. I like to have one surprise or another for her when she returns from a trip away. (this is trip #4 since BD!)
Even in her present crises she's frugal with our money. There will be no commitment to keep this car, so we'll see what happens. Zoom Zoom.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
