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when can you leave and go to the new place?

Are you financially safe enough? What if she depletes the account?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change
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PS

it's Saturday...please go out tonight with a friend, or at least rent or see a comedy. Preferably a live show if you can.

Get your mind OFF her and the pain. OF course there was a knot in the stomach...welcome to the divorce diet...

but there are absolutely things you CAN do, to feel better.

This really will pass, Alan...and things will get better. I guarantee you that.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change
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As soon as I get mu first paycheck I should be OK, regardless of what happens with the joint account. I just need to figure out a bed for the new place.


Me:22 W:20
T: 1.5 years
M: 1 year
I find out about EA: late March 2013
W says she wants D: 4/8/13
I find out about PA: 4/19/13
I move out: 5/9/13
I file: 5/24/13
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I got a bed off ebay at a 3rd of the price in store and delivered next day with mattress.


M36 W31
S4 S2
T5 M4
BD Jan12 S July12
Recon Sep12-Nov12
ILBINILWY Jan13
OM x 2 in 2013
W wants R July 13
I start D. Jan 14.
Meet GF Nov 13
Have I changed enough? Jul 14

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found a bed on craigslist for super cheep, now I just need to get a mattress and I'll have everything I need to live in new place.


Me:22 W:20
T: 1.5 years
M: 1 year
I find out about EA: late March 2013
W says she wants D: 4/8/13
I find out about PA: 4/19/13
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I know this is hard for you emotionally but you are doing a great job of doing what you need to do to take care of yourself. Hang in there!


M 46
H 44
D 12 S 8
M 9 T 11
BD 2/15/13
"Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13
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How's it going Alan?


M36 W31
S4 S2
T5 M4
BD Jan12 S July12
Recon Sep12-Nov12
ILBINILWY Jan13
OM x 2 in 2013
W wants R July 13
I start D. Jan 14.
Meet GF Nov 13
Have I changed enough? Jul 14

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Yes Alan, how are you doing?

You seem to keep putting one foot in front of the other, and that's KEY here.

Things have to be done, and you get that.

I'm so glad & proud that you are functioning, but things will clear up.

Please let us know how you are.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change
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hey, it's been a few days since I've been on here. Work seems to be going well. I've moved some things over to the new place. Still looking for a mattress and a method of transport for it to get to the new place. W likes to disappear for days at a time now. I prefer it when she is gone though. If she gets home before I fall asleep then I have trouble getting to sleep. I know that before I said I was done with M but there had always been some tiny bit of hope for it. That is pretty much gone now, I just want to get on with my life and I don't really want W in it. I have the next couple days off so I will probably be doing some packing and get a mattress figured out.


Me:22 W:20
T: 1.5 years
M: 1 year
I find out about EA: late March 2013
W says she wants D: 4/8/13
I find out about PA: 4/19/13
I move out: 5/9/13
I file: 5/24/13
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I got a lot of stuff moved today. I wanted to get a mattress and sleep at the new place today, but there was an accident on the freeway and I couldn't get to the u-haul place before it closed. I should be able to get it tomorrow.


Me:22 W:20
T: 1.5 years
M: 1 year
I find out about EA: late March 2013
W says she wants D: 4/8/13
I find out about PA: 4/19/13
I move out: 5/9/13
I file: 5/24/13
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