I am really mad over the offer I received. I am stuck with thousands in attorneys fees for nothing. I get the house, but if I agree to everything else I will be struggling financially for at least the next year. My H knows that I will be forced to sell so the agreement says that I have six months to refi. If I don't I need to sell immediately and split the equity. However, if I do refi he will waive all rights to future proceeds and will sign the house over to me. In the meantime, he wants me to accept the majority of the marital debt, repair and maintenance of the home and waive my right to all of his other assets and possessions. I can't sign the current agreement, but continuing to negotiate or litigate is expensive. I feel every avenue leads to more losses. No matter what I do my life isn't working. I'm tired of this.
