This is a great thread. The honesty here is breath taking. I only wished I had gotten to it before BD day. I and W have both been to individual counseling, and MC....and never were any of these easy to understand and clear thoughts brought out.

Thank you all.

Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013