confusion...

[willbwell]

Yes, I want to talk with him! But I want to talk about resolution. I am afraid he justs wants to throw in the towel. I know this is perhaps mind reading. I guess I still can't accept his leaving our great family. We are going on one yr now since the Ilybnilwy. We've talked before and the outcome was not what I wanted. I will need enormous resolve to not let my emotions get the better of me. To remember to validate his feelings. If he talks about pursuing D to not say anything other than, I see or I am sorry you feel that way. He knows this is not what I want. I am giving him space. I text very infrequently now. I try to say thank you for things he does( ie take D to school) To be honest though, he has given 0 indication that he is interested in working on our M. We have just continued allbthese months in limbo. He does his own thing. I take care of the kids and house. He pays the bills. He sees the kids not on a schedule, but really when it is convenient for him. I have allowed this. Don't know if OW is still in picture