Hey N, sorry I haven't been posting, but have been keeping an eye. Just say thank you for the offer, but I am good. (on the car) S's school would like to know when they can expect a payment, would you like to call them and arrange that?
Do not bend on the car...I have a gut feeling also. Worse comes to worse, can you get it fixed thereby pre-empting him? Even if it is on payments?
I have an image of your H is his Brioni suit flying through the air and landing in a pile of.. well, I will leave it up to your imagination.