TnD,

Sorry you're having to deal with this nastiness frown

If its any help at all, this is very typical behavior, both of cheaters in general and of MlCers in particular.

Originally Posted By: tiredndrained
Do they ever take responsibility?

Sometimes not.

Sometimes they just can't face what they've done and their minds twist things and they blame others to protect themselves from the guilt.

If you can avoid having these types of talks on text, or even email, that would be best.

And that would be the sort of response I'd suggest.

"That's a complicated question. Let's talk about it face to face."

But then wait for him to bring it up, which may never happen.

Remember not to expect rational responses from an irrational person, ok?

Just back up and let him roll along.

smile Sending you good thoughts smile

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.