Hey BF,
Yeah, that's a possibility...
I'm a bit reluctant even to get drawn into an email exchange though.

Trying to work out why XH is insisting that i respond via email.

We've already talked it through face-to-face.
I feel like he's trying to trap me into saying something that he'll use against me in court.

I just read BRNR's post in MLC and thought maybe something like:

"When you're ready to discuss the school fees and CS, let me know."

But I would prefer to say this to him rather than put it in an email, cause I fear he's got a plan to use the response against me.

Oh lord, all this second-guessing!
Still it will all be over once the settlement is done.