Ummmm.....am I the only one who is DISTURBED by his comment????

WASs often project, or work into casual peripheral conversation the stuff they are actually thinking about or doing.

As wacky as your H is - I sure wouldn't be letting him fix me any meals.

This may be nothing more than an idle thought related to thinking about how the difficult divorce process will be. Or it might be leaking out from a mind that has been idly wondering how he can make you disappear.

I don't suppose you have any way to check the search history on his computer? Just to make sure he hasn't been researching "ways to kill your wife"???