WH,
Yeah the control thing is massive isn't it.

Just every little thing has to be done their way.

Not sure what that's about.

I had to chuckle to myself at the surgery the other day. After XH returned the form with my details scrubbed out, the receptionist came over to me and asked for my health insurance number - surprise, surprise, I'm the one who pays for the kids' health insurance, not XH.

When i went up to her desk to give it to her, she looked at the form and asked me if i wanted my phone number as the contact for my son.

Then she entered it on his record.

I could feel XH's eyes burning a hole in my back as I gave her my mobile number. He was livid all over again.

They must feel thwarted constantly. By us, kids, life, work.... Wonder if OW is ever subject to any of this?