labug,
Do I EVER point out what is wrong? I'm afraid eventually, if not already, she'll talk herself into thinking this is all ok, the kids will not be affected, that life won't suck if she kills the M.

Im not the best person, and probably the worst person, to tell her these things and have her listen. But if not me, who?

Me 46 W 43
S 21 D 18 S 17
M 22 yrs
Discovered OM 9/10/12
W moved to sister's 9/15/12
W moved to OM 9/27/12
Tried to DB until 7/13
W filed 10/7/13. Did not serve.
I counter filed 12/2/13.