bug- the lady is my counselor. and yes i have trust issues. i have had a rough life and i learned long ago that trusting people can get you hurt. i know that isn't always true, it is just a defense mechanism i am working hard to overcome. my anxiety doesnt help.
the guy crys about everything. my girfriend didnt make me breakfast, she didnt do this, she didnt do that, my boss doesnt like me. literal tears. i go to aa with his girlfriend so i know her. he is a little bit over dramatic. she isnt perfect but neither is he. i try to b supportive but it makes me uncomfortable when men cry. i dont like it and im not sure why. a construction site is a place men shouldnt be crying IMO.
SAIS-
lol!! im not a huge guy.. 5'6" so i like to stay at fighting weight if that makes sense. i'm a pitbull fanatic and i like to stay in shape like one. not huge and blocky. chiseled and toned. working out has become my happy place. no one gets mad when i "hit" the weights...lol
