XH keeps emailing me the same question - over and over again: "When can i pick up the car to get a quote for repairs".
He wants me to reply in an email. I feel i've already told him that he needs to tell us what he's doing about paying school fees and CS before he incurs more debt.
I feel trapped by these repeated emails. If i reply, I get drawn into an argument - and i end up accusing him (of being too untrustworthy: he will take the car and sell it, I fear) or shaming him (you haven't paid for your kids).
If I don't reply, he keeps hammering me - and I look like I won't cooperate if he takes the email record to court. Such fun!
I LOVE your saying: If my legs were longer I'd boot him clear into tomorrow.
I'm picturing him flying through the air right now!
