This morning at breakfast H announces he has a great idea for a book or a movie.

He says, "imagine a society where if you wanted a divorce, you'd go before a judge and if the judge granted you a divorce, the only way to carry it out was to kill your spouse. Like, the judge would say, "I grant you this divorce. May the best person win." And the couple would go out separate exits and one would have to kill the other in order to complete the divorce."

I chew my eggs, look at H, and think. I think in about 8 million directions, but say nothing.

"Well," he demands, "what do you think?"

I told him I wasn't sure... but should I be worried?

H SIGHS "Why do you have to take everything so seriously?!?"

~ just another day in paradise here wink

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.