Originally Posted By: Papa4Life
Has anyone else heard of LBSs doing something like that. What's the general consensus here about dating? Not that it's something I'd do, but I'm intrigued to find out where other people are at re. testing the waters in the face of an imminent D.


I believe dating others is contrary to DB principals. I don't see how you are working on saving the marriage when you're adding others to the mix. Nope, not me. I'm fine on my own, thank you.

If someone feels they need to be with another person to bolster their self esteem or confidence, maybe they should figure out why and work on that.


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl