She might change her mind before she files. She might change her mind after, but before the D is final. Don't allow worrying about this take you off your DB course, Grizz. Bust on like you have been. You have to, for you and your kids. Stay strong and consistent.

A lot of the time the WAS wants to be independent. I'd not help with the move unless she asks. She's a big girl making big girl choices, right?

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl