Papa4Life, my view is simple, I am married, whether the W is living with me or not. I am still going to keep to my vows I married by. Yes, maybe I didn't keep to the vow of being the best for my W, but again, I didn't realise where I was or what I was doing. No excuses, that is just how it is. But, I am going to simply stick to being a married man until my W applies and succeeds in divorce, if that is what happens. Then, I will need to decide how and what I am going to do. I will not date, be romantic or think about who I could start taking out.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
