Thanks KD! What you said really makes sense!

I admit that this is really my problem..."mind reading" and putting/giving meaning to something what is said or done.

H once told me that I am (becoming)paranoid...that I think too much ahead, giving meaning to every actions and every word he says and done and it's nothing more than a paranoid fantasy of mine.

Me50 H53 S22
M23
2007 1st BD
May 2011 2nd BD
Aug 2011 Moved out(wants space)
Feb 2012 came back (wants to work things out)
Sept2012 moved out
Oct 2012 found out OW but denies
March 2013 Admits OW