Hi sweetie. Yes, it is normal for your moods to be all over the place. This is a rollercoaster ride. Add to that you being pregnant - recipe for seasickness. lol
In, I know that you are giving reasons for why you want to tell the ow. But, I think if you were to be hones with yourself, the main reason is that you hope it will bring it to an end.
A couple things about that. First of all, she is a bandaid. That's it. This is not a relationship based on trust and honesty. She is sleeping with a married man. He is still sleeping with you. He is broken.
She is nothing. And as such, I wouldnt want to tell her a thing. Her problem if she believes him. All telling her would do would give them more reason to blame you.
He would be very angry. And so would she. That would give them something else to bond over. I promise you, it will not give you the results you want. He will just make up an excuse as to why he still sleeps with you and that you tricked him regarding the pregnancy. And she will believe him because she wants to.
It is best to let this thing die of its own accord. If you interfered, would you really want him back in that way?
That will just bring trouble down the road.
You keep your dignity, In. Dont give any credibility to this affair by acknowledging it.
As far as how you feel now, well, this is exhausting and of course you are going to feel tired of it all.
