JP- How much time were you in front of your computer before the bomb drop?

My thoughts as to a great 180( if answer to question above is ALOT) would be you doing things (yourself or with family) away from the computer more

You doing things for you and inviting whoever to come along if they want- but you doing it anyway

ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13