A New Me 4

[jp787]

I was passive aggressive. When I would be upset, I would pout and not talk.

This was me too, maybe ignore was the wrong word, you nailed it with what you said.

Sooo when I really think about this, this is what I come up with.

For me, Don't pursue. Meaning to give W space and time, to be available for her for important things, but not trivial and not as in being used.

Text 2-3 times a week to say something like hope your having a good day.

Ask to do something once a week to do something no pressuring.

**Now for the vets to come tell me if I am kidding myself or if this has merit.