I am kind of in the same boat. I never ignored W but I was passive aggressive. When I would be upset, I would pout and not talk. This is what I am having trouble with also. If I back off of interactions (even lovingly) I think it will seem like more of the same from me. Me not being happy and just shutting down any interaction. Oh what to do?
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.