Grizz,
When my W moved out, I offered to help. She said no, she would do it. Granted it was just cloths and whatnot. So I let her do it.

For me it felt right to offer, even though it hurt.

M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy