New here, and need some advice

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No on the cert, just more studying. No to catching her, not at all. Too late for today as far as snooping, let's just start small and shoot for the rest of the day! I will get better though because even though I find nothing I continue to look.

Hi CL , I've only caught the end of your thread so far. But I think stopping the snooping is a great idea. Not only is it making you constantly think about her, which in turn stops you getting on with concentrating on your life, it also means you may just find something. Something that is nothing in particular, nothing concrete that tells you anything, but puts a little bit of doubt in your mind, and I can guarantee this will drive you insane. You will not be able to ask her about it, because its nothing concrete and therefore you will fear it will make things worse. So you will have to sit and be quiet, and the not knowing will eat away at you for a while until you manage to tell yourself to forget about it.

I know because I learnt the hard way. I found out my wife was somewhere different to where she said she was staying. I assumed with OM, but more than ikely could have been with friends. I will probably never find out - and because of that I wish i did not know.