No longer treading water, must either sink or swim

[Grizz]

Everyone thanks for the help. I guess I will know the answer when the time comes. Right know, I am leaning toward helping. Not sure why.

I agree that the emptiness of the house will be what is most difficult.

I know that she will file after she moves out because she told me so. Many times she has said that if she leaves and leases an apartment and divides the finances, buys more furniture, etc then she she is going to file soon.