It's just so surreal because part of the reason we are here is because of my dealings with other women. So i'm being VERY careful not to go there. I've been in 2 marriages now both women completely different in many ways, but they have both told me the same things about my dealings with them. So they can't both be wrong...
I must have missed something. What was your dealings with other women?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!