Thanks so much for all of the replies. I haven't talked with my attorney yet, but her message was the offer is less than perfect. Well, I don't an ideal agreement, but there are some items that I won't budge on. My H has tried to get me to agree on less spousal support than I am entitled to and wants it terminated early. I won't agree to that even though he is giving me the house and all the equity. There's no telling what's the future holds and I don't want to be in a position where I have to sell my home just to survive financially. The only time he backed off on that was when he was trying to close on a house and needed me to quickly agree. When that fell through he retracted his offer. I know I'm getting ahead of myself since I don't have all of the details, but my attorney didn't seem excited about it at all.
As for my anniversary, I'm numb. I thought I would care, but right now I truly don't. Maybe later. I'm sure when the D is final I will go through another period of grieving all of the losses and what could have been.
