Your H sounds like mine. Yes, he is trying to bait you. Congrats for picking up on that. I still have to remind myself constantly. He wants to fight. Don't give him the satisfaction.
Hang in there and keep us posted.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"