Weird scenario

[Jeack]

So I spent last night reading old texts between me and W sinces she's left needless to say. I wasn't DBing. There were times that she reached to be friends and I hard headed pushed her back. There were also times where she was overly nice just to manipulate me for money. She even admitted it during a argument we had.

So I know it's not good to read old messages, but really showed me how verbally abusive I was.

Next weird scenario. When I was still pursuing and chasing W. I decided to friend her brother on Facebook. Just now he accepted it 2 weeks later. Me and him have always got along very good as a matter of W said I was the only he ever liked. I don't want to mind read into anything but wondering if it was to see what I'm up to or what. I also could see where W would see this is pursuing.

So how would you act on Facebook. I haven't said anything bad about W on FB at all. Just wondering how the vets would handle this.