Hey P, thanks for stopping by. It would certainly be a 180 and its not going to be an easy one - I'm gonna try though. I have always been one to tell my W what she needs to do to solve a problem, been the man that fixes her problems, would do anything to stop her getting into trouble or stressful situations. Even stopped her from saying things to people to keep the peace or avoid conflict with that person. But at the same time when it comes to my life I have always wanted her opinion, her to give the okay. I realised today I was thinking about something and thought , what would my W think about that? I have spent too long asking for her reassurance, her go ahead and worrying of she will agree with what I am thinking and liking.
It's time to let her do what she thinks is right and let myself make my own decisions and have my own opinions. Maybe this way she will feel the true sense of independence and also gain some respect back for me and my decisions.
Wish me luck
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
