You can live your life without your spouse and still stand for your M.
I don’t know if I can do that. I’m not fully detached yet, and it might take a few more months. But, I think when I’m completely detached, I will not want my H in my life anymore. This is just me. Maybe I still don’t completely understand the detachment concept.
Originally Posted By: AnotherStander
Because even though it's been over 10 months, if you read the success stories there have been a significant number of WAS's that changed their minds even after a year or more. You have to remember, what your H says/ thinks only applies to TODAY. He may never change his mind, but he may change it tomorrow.
Yes, I’ve read many, many success stories, but haven’t found one sitch close to my. In all success stories WASs were in constant contact, and even lived in the same house. In my case, my H has not ever wavered and I think his decision to end the M is solid. So, the chance for him to change his mind is very, very slim.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
