These are "Post-Piecing"? kinds of issues that we are all facing to some degree.
Interesting to me that the "fear" issue is so varied...for me the biggest fear is that what we have is just not going to meet our needs and our M will end.
I keep hearing myself tell our C at our first session (when CJ revealed for the first time that he did want to work on our M)...that I wanted our M to work out...but not at any cost...that I had needs, changes to our M for ME...
I'm afraid aside from NOT cheating or lying any more, I can't say there's a whole lot of tangible progress there.
