Thanks KD, I understand and appreciate your feedback. Need to process it.

Our C does know and has told me to chill out. I was doing ok, until she was looking at pictures of him Saturday night, and until her friend contacted me yesterday with the fresh info on contacting him. That, plus her lackadasical attitude towards MC this week has shaken me up.

CB

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"