Struggling and need help #2

[CharlieBrown]

Thank you T, I feel the intensity of your pain coming through your email and it makes me feel that you feel mine and understand (as so many here do).

Question. In this case, her friend sent me a long email yesterday, which I answered and ultimately it ended up as a phone call. She brought up her tat-boy concerns and it was her who told me W called her last weekend after too much wine and told her she has contacted (IM and texted) tat-boy. She is seeing W to discuss everything else and feels that she has to bring it up since W called her last weekend and it is making her sick. They have been friends for 25 years and W opens up to her and listens to her in a way she doesn't even to me. We have discussed this in therapy as it is not good generally, but in this case, could this help? She isn't bringing it up that I asked her to, but in the context of "You called me last weekend, I already know all this other stuff about your obsession with tat-boy, don't bs me, what is up."

I think that might help, your thoughts?