Positivespin....I hear you brother! Fortunately for me, my kids are adults now, with only my step son from W's first M at home. Dont get me wrong, I raised and loved this kid since I met him at 6 months old...but in the end, if she gets her way I am out of the picture anyway.

ANYWAY...I am taking off if she does indeed file for D. I am thinking the Florida Keys and will beach bum and work for air as a Divemaster for dive shops.

I gave my W everything, and kept nothing for myself. Its time I start living for me.

As a side not...I posted a thread 4 days ago, and I still dont see it, nor any of my posts on other threads....how long does this moderation last? I really would like to post my sitch so I can get feedback. Being patient...but over 72 hrs to approve a post is a little nuts.


Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013