Struggling and need help #2

[CharlieBrown]

Had a revalation last night. For several months W has been losing her hair. Went to Dr. and received shots to the three specific spots and was told that this is alopecia and stress is a major cause. She has talked about the stress of thinking of what a move would do to the kids, and about me needing to get a new job. My revalation was that while this may be there in the background, the real stress is likely the tat-boy fanstasy and the secrecy. She was raised right and is stressed out because she knows how wrong and dangerous this is.