Thanks KD. Because she did mention to her best friend, who is sick about all this, is going to ask her. Her friend is very concerned about her and knows how dangerous this fantasy is, and that if she doesn't own up to it, our therapy and everything she is saying is a lie. But, I am not going to bring it up. I believe that friend will ask her about it and stress how she needs to open up to me about it, either one on one or in therapy. I think there is a good chance she will not, but at least she will know that her big secret is not such a big secret.
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"