Is this cake eating 13

[wishing, hoping]

Hang in there NLW. Keep digging for stuff and keep praying.

Your X and mine are two of a kind, for sure. Mine is completely paranoid and will not divulge any information unless forced.

He doesn't need your sympathy. It's okay to feel empathy towards him, but sympathy gives off a vibe that you want to help. You can't help him. This is about his issues. It's important to know the difference so you don't get sucked into his web again.

See, he has his D finalized and he is still angry. He still wants control. I can't believe he scribbled out your number and wrote his over the top of it. What an @$$. My H tries to take control at S's counseling sessions as well, but what he doesn't realize is that I get to know what is going on and if H schedules an appointment for S, I can just call the counselor and find out when that appointment is. For a while, H was scheduling these appointments on "his" time so I wasn't included until I called the counselor and asked if we could go back to alternating parents time so we could both be included. The counselor told H that he couldn't schedule the next appointment, because that would be my time.

You hang in there and take care of yourself and those kids. Keep praying. I am praying for you too!

WH