There I went with more poor cmmunication again. Advina, I was not trying to put words in your mouth. All of those things have been used to describe me at one point or another, not necissarily by you.My statement was very generalized. All I was trying to say is, I actually do use "thank you" and "Please" quite often. I am an appreciative person.
I also want to make a point about my poor communication regarding my feelings for wifes time. It is not at ALL that I think her time is less important than mine. I did not assume she should take daughter to the dentist for that reason. That literally had nothing to do with my reply. The context I was focusing on, and only due to some of you believing that I was using this to gather information about what Wife was up to, was that I really didn't care or wish to know what she was up to at 10:30 am. I just didn't explain myself properly I guess. I just intended to point out that I was not on spy missions at all regarding wife. I was not trying to keep tabs on her. That was pointed out and mentioned, and I was trying to make it very clear that those were not my intentions....it all literally boiled down to poor communication on my part.
I hold on to and appreciate every single bit of advice that is given to me by all of you. I really do. I think when something is said or pointed out that I don't find accurate, I reply in a way that is taken out of context. That is nobodies fault but my own. I realize it...sorry
One of my biggest GAL activites lately has been the renewed interest in motorcycles. I have been putting more miles on my bike than I have in YEARS. I am, for the first time, actually finding it very theraputic. I have also been reconnectiong with lots of old friends that I had lost contact with. I am getting out there as much as I can doing new (okay maybe old) things that do not revolve around my life with wife.
