Yes I know what you mean and regarding the consequences - I honestly believe the last thing S needs at the moment is to meet OM - his relationship with my W is already severly fractured.

I have just emailed her actually:

"W,
S mentioned a few times recently that he doesn't get too see you much etc. I understand it's difficult with your work but do you think we'd be best served to have a look at the arrangements?

Perhaps you could change the 2 days you work, or have S on different days? It seems a shame (for him) that 2 of the weekdays you have him - you are at work so don't see him until late (if at all).

Please let me know what you think.

Thank you - have a nice day."


W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013