So, today I managed to channel all my anger in a productive direction.
Spent the day on the phone tracking down financial evidence and talking to Ls and CS officials.
Things look brighter - because the more I find out about what's he's done with our money, the more it looks as if XH's goose is well and truly cooked.
Given the lies and weirdness that I've uncovered today, i'm back to thinking he needs my sympathy. He cannot be functioning normally to be doing and saying what he is in relation to financial evidence before the court.
I'm planning a big weekend of sport with my kids this weekend. S14 has basketball way out of town early on Sat morning. Then D17 has netball, and then we are off to a big football game. Phew. Next day is mother's day here, and that means a Sunday night dinner at my parents' place.
MIL has promised to come over with food she has baked for us too. I ALWAYS look forward to that!