Thanks Acc. I felt like I was her emotional sponge for how she is feeling about working on her. She said a few times that she's scared that he just is never going to be happy. I validated and then said I can promise you this. If you try it won't get any worse than you feel right now. But you need to figure that out for you. I did not let her out any of the other baggage on me at all. I did say that I do take some responsibility for us getting to the point of us being separted, but I will not be blamed for choices that continue to be made. Urworthy I feel great. I feel like we both realize that we just need to work on each other individually
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it