Thanks Acc. I felt like I was her emotional sponge for how she is feeling about working on her. She said a few times that she's scared that he just is never going to be happy. I validated and then said I can promise you this. If you try it won't get any worse than you feel right now. But you need to figure that out for you.
I did not let her out any of the other baggage on me at all. I did say that I do take some responsibility for us getting to the point of us being separted, but I will not be blamed for choices that continue to be made.
Urworthy I feel great. I feel like we both realize that we just need to work on each other individually


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it