Lostforever, your choice, if your wife is in a lesbian relationship, is it a deal breaker or not. If not, then you know what to continue doing. For me, at this stage of my sitch, it wouldn't be a deal breaker. I am here for the long term.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.