Struggling and need help #2

[CharlieBrown]

Ugh. W best friend emailed me today, then we ended up talking. She is sick about "the alien that looks like her friend" and wanted to see how I thought things were going. In the course of this, she brought up tat-boy and said that W called her after having a few too many when she was in the city she wants us to move, and that she told her she pm'd tat-boy on FB. So, she is really upset "What is she doing?!!!" kind of stuff. Her theory is that W is being so blatant that maybe she is waiting for me to call her on it. I told her I have been advised not to, or I might push her more in that direction. She is convinced tat-boy is a fantasy, but she is playing with gasoline while juggling torches. I told her my main concern is that she come clean, that I will listen and love W, but that she needs to be the one to bring it up to me. But, honestly, I don't know how much longer I can hold out and not say something.

Oh, and she agreed to go to therapy Thursday after I brought it up.

CB